Is a Handfasting or Blessing Legal? No,unfortunately. Most of our Handfasting or Blessing couples have done the required legal bit first. A day or week before hand. Some don’t even bother, and just change their surname by deed poll. Or you could get married at a church or registry office.
Why would I want to do it twice? A Blessing or Handfasting means far more than the usual wedding ceremony. To start with you are called by the name you are known by, so, if Charles Henry Richard William Smith-Jones is known to all as Wolf... Then it will be Wolf and who-ever who tie the knot! No embarrassing listening to your ex's surname in the reading of the ceremony either! A Blessing is also a chance for you to show your love in more deep and meaningful way than the traditional words used in a civil service. When Marriage is not enough to express your love, a Blessing will come very close!
How much does a Ceremony cost? This depends on where you want it. If I'm required to travel, then obviously my fuel costs and a Ceremony charge, please e.mail me for up to date prices.
Do you use a Contract? Yes. To protect you & myself, so we all know what’s included. There are also certain rules and regulations for using Country Blessings. Most are just simple common sense guidelines, for example No Sky lanterns (although the water ones would be allowed) simply because there are trees and woodland all around the site and we don't want it destroyed. We are also NOT a rave venue, so if this is what you want, go somewhere else! We do not allow drugs or anything that breaks the law. You will not sign the contract until you pay your deposit (see lower down) so you will be able to read and clarify any points. We try our utmost to be adaptable.
Do you require pre-martial counselling? No, I believe that everyone is entitled to their own beliefs and because of this, I do not enforce my views on anyone.
Do you Bless same sex marriages? Yes, as before - everyone is entitled to their own beliefs and it is a joint feeling of Love that is being celebrated.
If we want our wedding at Country Blessings what do we do? Contact me, I will contact the owners and then we can sort out a time to all meet each-other at the venue and then we can discuss your arrangements and ideas. I like to help you cut costs and can save you money and recommend some suppliers and more importantly I know who Not to recommend! .
How do we reserve our wedding date with you? First, contact me via email or phone to see if your date and time is available. Once you decide to use my services, I will require a £50 (non-refundable) deposit to hold your day in my calendar. Note: £100 deposit, if service is to be at Country Blessings.
Why are deposits non refundable?
I am reserving this date and time for you and you alone. Other services on this date may have been turned down due to your reservation. Also, because I am going to draft up a selection ceremonies that I have worked out for you and I need to be compensated my time and talent!
The deposit is deducted from the total cost of your ceremony fee-so only the balance is due on or before the day of the event.
Do We Have a Rehearsal? Yes, if you would like one. Although, not strictly necessary. If your ceremony is to take place at Country Blessings then it is helpful to have a walk through at some point. If I am traveling to you and you do require a rehearsal then obviously fuel and expenses would have to be added (although if there is time to do it on the day, that can save you some money!)
What are your credentials? My Ministry was obtained from the following legally recognized churches:- The Universal Life Church, The Church of Seven Planes, and The Church of Spiritual Humanism.
Any further questions? Please e.mail or call me.
Why would I want to do it twice? A Blessing or Handfasting means far more than the usual wedding ceremony. To start with you are called by the name you are known by, so, if Charles Henry Richard William Smith-Jones is known to all as Wolf... Then it will be Wolf and who-ever who tie the knot! No embarrassing listening to your ex's surname in the reading of the ceremony either! A Blessing is also a chance for you to show your love in more deep and meaningful way than the traditional words used in a civil service. When Marriage is not enough to express your love, a Blessing will come very close!
How much does a Ceremony cost? This depends on where you want it. If I'm required to travel, then obviously my fuel costs and a Ceremony charge, please e.mail me for up to date prices.
Do you use a Contract? Yes. To protect you & myself, so we all know what’s included. There are also certain rules and regulations for using Country Blessings. Most are just simple common sense guidelines, for example No Sky lanterns (although the water ones would be allowed) simply because there are trees and woodland all around the site and we don't want it destroyed. We are also NOT a rave venue, so if this is what you want, go somewhere else! We do not allow drugs or anything that breaks the law. You will not sign the contract until you pay your deposit (see lower down) so you will be able to read and clarify any points. We try our utmost to be adaptable.
Do you require pre-martial counselling? No, I believe that everyone is entitled to their own beliefs and because of this, I do not enforce my views on anyone.
Do you Bless same sex marriages? Yes, as before - everyone is entitled to their own beliefs and it is a joint feeling of Love that is being celebrated.
If we want our wedding at Country Blessings what do we do? Contact me, I will contact the owners and then we can sort out a time to all meet each-other at the venue and then we can discuss your arrangements and ideas. I like to help you cut costs and can save you money and recommend some suppliers and more importantly I know who Not to recommend! .
How do we reserve our wedding date with you? First, contact me via email or phone to see if your date and time is available. Once you decide to use my services, I will require a £50 (non-refundable) deposit to hold your day in my calendar. Note: £100 deposit, if service is to be at Country Blessings.
Why are deposits non refundable?
I am reserving this date and time for you and you alone. Other services on this date may have been turned down due to your reservation. Also, because I am going to draft up a selection ceremonies that I have worked out for you and I need to be compensated my time and talent!
The deposit is deducted from the total cost of your ceremony fee-so only the balance is due on or before the day of the event.
Do We Have a Rehearsal? Yes, if you would like one. Although, not strictly necessary. If your ceremony is to take place at Country Blessings then it is helpful to have a walk through at some point. If I am traveling to you and you do require a rehearsal then obviously fuel and expenses would have to be added (although if there is time to do it on the day, that can save you some money!)
What are your credentials? My Ministry was obtained from the following legally recognized churches:- The Universal Life Church, The Church of Seven Planes, and The Church of Spiritual Humanism.
Any further questions? Please e.mail or call me.